The inner voice was overheard, and the whole court was eating melons together

Chapter 381 Song Qingling's Marriage

Song Yaoyao quickly explained:

“Miss Wan, losing weight is not what you think.

At the beginning, your base weight is large and you lose weight quickly, but as time goes by, the weight loss becomes slower and slower. It is not possible to lose 30 pounds every month.

In your case, conservatively speaking, it will take at least a year to recover.

I told you before that losing weight is a long process, so let's take it slow!

Miss Wan, keep going, come on! "

After hearing what Song Yaoyao said, Wan Xiwen was a little disappointed, but still said firmly:

"Don't worry, my lord, I will persevere.

After sticking to this for a month, my appetite is no longer as big and I am not as hungry at night.

I believe I can do it!"

"come on!"

……

While Wan Xiwen was losing weight in a hurry, the Marquis' Mansion was also discussing Song Qingling's marriage.

Ever since she attended Shin So-yeon's coming-of-age ceremony that day, Mrs. Song began to pay attention to the fifteen men who had invited Song Qingling.

Mrs. Song sent people to inquire about the identities, family backgrounds, current occupations, and whether they had concubines? As well as their family members, each person's temperament and character, and whether they were easy to get along with? ...

In just three days, Mrs. Song got all the information of these fifteen people.

There was no other way. Mrs. Song had to do this for her daughter's future happiness.

Those who have concubines and maids are removed; those whose mothers are difficult to get along with are removed...

In this way, only five people were left.

Among these five people, Liu Zheheng is obviously the best in all aspects.

At this moment, the whole family sat together. Mrs. Song handed the information of these five people to everyone and said:

"These are the five people who were finally selected. Take a look."

Song Yaoyao took the information and read it carefully.

Guagua's voice rang out:

[Host, how is it? I was right, wasn't I?

I said that day that Liu Zheheng was the most outstanding in all aspects.

Look, among the five people your mother finally selected, he is still the best.

I still have a pretty good eye!

Host, Liu Zheheng is destined to be your brother-in-law. 】

Song Yaoyao: [Is he my brother-in-law? In the end, my eldest sister has to give her approval.

Liu Zheheng is 21 years old this year, 6 years older than my eldest sister.

My eldest sister will definitely have to wait two years before she can get married. Can he wait that long?

My eldest sister must not get married right after she reaches the age of 15!

I absolutely disagree with this! 】

Song Yaoyao sighed and continued:

[In modern times, the state stipulates that women must be at least 20 years old and men must be at least 22 years old to get married, otherwise it is against the law.

Alas, after getting married, the woman will soon become pregnant and give birth to a child.

From a medical point of view, the best age for women to have children is between 20 and 35 years old. If a woman has children too early, the secretory axis of her ovaries, hypothalamus and pituitary gland will be unstable, and ovulation will also be very unstable.

Mothers who give birth prematurely are not fully developed physically and mentally. Premature pregnancy may cause mothers to suffer from complications such as gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, premature birth, and low birth weight.

Children born prematurely may also suffer from congenital diseases, developmental disorders, breathing difficulties and other illnesses.

In short, giving birth too early is of no benefit to the mother or the child. 】

Guagua: [Host, I know everything you said.]

Song Yaoyao continued:

[My eldest sister is only 15 years old this year and has not yet celebrated her 15th birthday. In modern times, she is still a child.

Even if this was in ancient times, one had to be at least 18 years old before one could get married.

All indicators of the body mature only when a woman reaches the age of 18. If it is too early, it will not be good for her body.

I am not saying that Liu Zheheng is bad. I have no opinion about him as a person.

But I was worried that the Liu family was eager to have a grandson and wanted my eldest sister to marry him as soon as she reached the age of 15.

Guagua, you know that women have no control over their own affairs after they get married. They have no say over when to have children.

I am not only worried that giving birth too early will bring a series of health problems to the mother and child. What I am more worried about is that in ancient times when medical technology was not well developed, giving birth for women was equivalent to walking through the gates of hell. It was simply risking one's life. If things went wrong, there would be heavy bleeding, and in the end there would be two deaths.

Are there many women who have lost their lives during childbirth?

Gua Gua, when I think of this, I feel cold all over!

Although I can perform a caesarean section to allow her to give birth smoothly, I still insist that women should wait until they are at least 20 years old before considering having children. 】

Guagua was silent for a moment and said:

[Host, I understand your concerns.

You can explain the situation to Liu Zheheng and the Liu family, saying that your eldest sister will not get married until she is 18 and will not have children until she is 20, and tell them the reason. If there is no problem with their side, then let your eldest sister get along with Liu Zheheng. 】

Song Yaoyao: [My say on this matter does not count. I need to talk to my mother about the interests involved first and see what they say.]

Guagua: [It’s what I should do.]

This is a major life event, you must explain it clearly to your mother and the others. 】

Mrs. Song and the others were also extremely surprised when they heard Song Yaoyao's thoughts.

They had never remembered or heard of the medical terms that Yaoyao mentioned, including the long list of developmental disorders, but that did not prevent them from understanding what Yaoyao meant.

If a woman gets married too early, it will have a huge impact on her because her body is not fully developed yet. She may even lose her life when giving birth!

As far as they knew, there were many women losing their lives during childbirth every year on this continent. They never thought that it was because the women were too young or had not yet fully developed.

Since they knew the consequences of getting married too early, they would never let Qing Ling take the risk. Even if she wanted to get married, she had to be at least 18 years old.

At this time, Song Yaoyao's voice rang out:

"Mom and Dad, I want to talk to you about something medical..."

Next, Song Yaoyao told her family about the topic she had just discussed with Gua Gua.

Although Mrs. Song and the others already knew about this from Song Yaoyao's thoughts, they still listened carefully.

Madam Song asked, "Yaoyao, are you sure about this?"

"determine."

Mrs. Song nodded and said:

"The Tianfeng Kingdom stipulates that girls from decent families can get married after they turn 15.

If a woman is over 18 years old and has not yet married, the court will collect taxes from her.

If that's the case, we can keep Qingling for a few more years and let her get married when she turns 18.

What do you think? "

Song Yaoyao didn't expect that Tianfeng Country had such a rule?

Minister Song: “Of course there is no problem with this.

But now we have to consider how to tell the man about this matter? "